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What Is Homeschooling
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Do you know what these famous people
have in common?
Alexander Graham Bell
George Bernard Shaw
If you guessed that they were all homeschoolers, you’d be correct.
This is a very short list of famous and successful people who were
educated at home. If you would like to expand this list, do a search
on the Internet for “famous homeschoolers.” There are many websites
that list these people and some provide detailed biographies. There
is even a book called, aptly, “Famous Homeschoolers,” by Nancy and
Malcolm Plant. (http://www.fun-books.com/specials.htm)
The point here is to get into the mindset that people can be
educated and become successful adults without attending public
school. And because I can almost “hear” what you are thinking, no,
it is not necessary to have a high school diploma to go to college.
So what is homeschooling? In the broadest sense, homeschooling is
educating your children at home. You, as parent, become teacher.
Parents homeschool for more reasons than you can imagine. Some want
to avoid having their children exposed to violence and peer
pressure. Some homeschool so that they can make sure their
children’s education adheres to their religious beliefs. Some live a
different lifestyle-perhaps they travel a lot-and want their
children’s schooling to be flexible enough to fit around that life
style. And some, like me, simply enjoy being with their children.
They don’t want the public school to interrupt and weaken the
parent/child bond that they have been working hard to create for the
first five years of their child’s life.
Just as there are many reasons to homeschool, there are many methods
of homeschooling. All the way from “un-schooling” (learning by
doing, learning from life, not using textbook type materials) to
“school at home” (using textbooks at desks set up in a schoolroom at
home) and everything in between. It’s very easy to find hundreds of
homeschool Websites by using a search engine, but just to get you
started, try: Jon’s Homeschool Resource Page (http://www.midnightbeach.com/hs/)
When I decided to write this article, I thought hard about what I
could offer that wasn’t being displayed on thousands of Websites on
the Internet. I realized that the only thing I have to offer anyone
interested in homeschooling is-my experience. So everything in the
article below comes from my fifteen years of experience
homeschooling my four youngest children. I hope it is of some use to
Deciding to homeschool your child may be one of the most important
decisions you ever make as a parent, and it will take a lot of
thought and soul searching. To the newcomer, it may seem impossible,
overwhelming and very, very lonely. But like most huge obstacles,
once it’s broken down into smaller pieces, it becomes manageable.
We’ll take it one step at a time, in small enough chunks to get a
hold of. So, if you’re game, roll up your sleeves and let’s get to
work figuring out if homeschooling is for you and your child.
First things first. Organization is the key. Get a three-ring binder
(homeschooling parent’s LOVE three-ring binders) and put a label on
the front. (If you’ve made the transition to digital record keeping,
you can just start a folder on the computer. But it’s not as much
fun.) Label it something serious, like “ My Homeschooling Plans” or
“Homeschooling Thoughts.” Put some paper in the binder, find a
really comfortable ink pen, and sit down somewhere quiet.
Ready? Good. Now, let’s get started.
What are your reasons for considering homeschooling? Even if you
haven’t actually made the decision to homeschool, the fact that you
are here reading this article says you are curious. Perhaps you
honestly don’t know the answer yet-and that’s ok. The remainder of
this article is going to try to help you start to find those
Homeschooling is legal in all 50 states, but each state has it’s own
set of laws that must be followed. Compulsory (how I hate that word)
education here in Washington State starts at the age of 8. Even
though I had been homeschooling him from birth, to stay legal once
my son reached 8-years old, I was required to become “certified.”
That meant I either had to have two years of college education, or
take a “certification class.” I met this requirement by taking an
independent correspondence class, during which I was asked to put on
paper my goals, philosophies and reasons for wanting to homeschool.
I’d like to help you do the same right now.
Start a page--either the “tree” kind or a file on the computer-and
title it “My Educational Beliefs.” List what personal beliefs you
have about education-especially the education of your own children.
Get as detailed as you can here--the value is in the thinking
process behind the list. Take your time, I’m in no hurry.
As an example to get you started, I’m going to share with you what I
wrote on my list nine years ago.
My Educational Beliefs
1. I believe my child’s attitude about learning should be:
One of continual curiosity and seeking of knowledge.
I believe my child’s learning should lead towards a lifestyle that
Rural, physically active, creative.
I believe these basic values should be part of my child’s learning:
Respect for others
Loyalty to family and friends
I believe children learn best:
Through hands-on learning experience, reading, workbooks.
I believe a teacher should:
Provide side-by-side assistance and direction.
Interact with the child.
Provide the structure within which the child may explore,
experiment, study and achieve.
Provide a good example of excitement in learning.
I believe my child should grow up to be self-reliant and
occupationally secure in a field of high interest to them.
Now, that wasn’t too bad, was it? Don’t give up on this until you
have at least something written down, but don’t agonize over it
either. You can come back to it later if need be. Next, start a
paper or file titled “Life Goals For My Child.”
I want you to write down what kind of person you envision your child
being as an adult. What are your hopes and dreams for him/her? What
educational gifts do you hope to be able to help them find that will
serve them their entire lives?
I’ll share mine from 9 years ago, just to get you started.
“Life Goals for My Child”
Compete well in their chosen field of occupation.
Appreciate art, music, and literature.
Be inventive and resourceful.
Be healthy, mentally and physically.
Co-operate with others.
Maintain a strong sense of self-worth.
Maintain a life-long curiosity, seeking knowledge as a way of life.
Look to the future with a sense of excitement and adventure.
For the last exercise, start a third paper titled: Why We (I) Am
Going To Homeschool Our (My) Child” (Yes, single parents can
successfully homeschool their children.) You may not have all the
answers for this one yet either, but just get something down. All of
these ideas and beliefs can start getting mixed in with other
people’s opinions once we start educating ourselves in depth about
homeschooling, and you’ll be glad you have these lists tucked away.
Okay, here’s my old list:
Why We Are Going To Homeschool Our Children
Our family consists of myself, my husband, a 21-year-old daughter, a
19-year-old daughter, an 8-year-old son, a 7-year-old daughter, a
4-½ year old daughter, and an unborn son due in 6 months. My two
oldest daughters (from my first marriage) were in the public school
system for the whole of their educational years. It is largely a
dissatisfaction with the public schools and all it’s attendant
problems (academic, social, and moral) that has caused us to make
the decision to homeschool our youngest children. We decided, even
before our 8-year-old son (the oldest of the younger set) was born,
that somehow we would find an alternative to the public schools.
We want to homeschool for some additional reasons. We want added
closeness with our children. We want more independence, greater
control over our family’s moral and philosophical values, and better
awareness of our children’s interests.
We dislike the thought of any government agency--no matter how well
meaning--directing the raising of our children.
We intend to homeschool because we do not want our children’s
academic, social, and moral education taken out of our hands.
We believe these areas of a child’s education are a parent’s
responsibility, right, and pleasure.
I’d like you to spend some time going over these lists until you
feel they accurately reflect your feelings about homeschooling your
children. When I did these exercises, I had only a vague idea about
why I wanted to homeschool and what kind of education I wanted to
help my children acquire. These simple exercises helped me to
“solidify” my ideas and provided the basis for our future
homeschooling methods. I hope they help you to do the same. Keep
these lists in a safe place and add to them as you explore the
possibility of homeschooling your child.
About the Author:
Anita York has been
homeschooling her four youngest children for the past 18 years. In
addition, she teaches other homeschoolers at two resource centers,
and is a contracted Senior Editor, Editor, Copyeditor and Manuscript
Screener for three fiction publishers. You can get further
information about her book, “You CAN Homeschool Your Child” at:
Her home business,
EagleMountain Reading, Writing, and Research Services (www.L7s.net/eaglemountain
) provides a variety of services geared towards helping beginning as
well as established authors with various aspects of the writing
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